Same Same but Different

For while we may share certain similarities in body type, the ways in which we choose to celebrate our curves are delightfully, distinctly our own. It’s about recognising that though we may be, in essence, “same same”, our approaches to cultivating that all-important, ineffable glow of self-love are deliciously “different”. Whether you seek to elegantly accentuate the graceful contours of your natural waistline or daringly play up the alluring, sculptural lines of your figure, the path to true sartorial and self-sovereignty lies wholeheartedly in embracing the uniquely divine design that is letting your signature style be your steadfast, unerring guide.

We bring together three inspiring and confident women whose impact encapsulates the importance of making your mark. Below, Raw, Jingyi, and Xinyi discover the roots of their power and confidence, the mantras they live by, and what they love most about themselves.

The blissful abandonment of youth – that’s the sweet spot for Xinyi. She gets the full perks of being a teenager without being an adult. She revels in the carefree, reckless life between the ages of 15 and 22, when the weight of the world has yet to settle on her slender shoulders. “My favourite age is 15-22, you have some extra pocket money, and you don’t have to worry about other people’s opinions”.

The world is full of harsh words and critiques so remember not to add yours to the mix. Self-love is like a muscle; we have to use it or lose it! For Xinyi, her favourite body part is her lips, and she embraces that! Shifting your mindset to an attitude of gratitude can work wonders.

“I am the hero of my own life.” Showing up for herself is central to Jingyi’s calm confidence.“I feel like when you reach your 30s, that’s when you pave a way for a life that’s uniquely yours”. Perhaps the very best thing about hitting your 30s is the ability to know yourself inside out. As you start making room for yourself in your 30s, a narcissistic vein also wavers. The time spent in a knot of self-pre-occupation can loosen and you start developing a wider, more inclusive perspective.

Confidence is one of the key components of her off-beat personal style, radiating unabashed joie de vivre. It’s impossible for people to describe me as “introverted”, “calm” and “dark”. Raw’s bold, outgoing personality is the mantra of the self-assured fashionista who deftly wields her sartorial prowess.

When she is truly present is when she feels the most joyful. “My favourite age so far is right now.” she shares. It’s a skill to be honed, a mindset to be cultivated, for only then can one truly extract the essence of life’s most precious moments.